變美好的第一步,接納此時此刻的自己

變美好的第一步,接納此時此刻的自己

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*本文內容涉及「身材、身體歧視」相關議題,如果你曾有過身材、身體歧視相關的創傷經驗,請斟酌是否閱讀本篇文章。

 

每次生日、新年許願望時,你一定看到很多人在臉書、脆 ( Threads )、IG 上「立下誓言」說今年一定要做出什麼改變—減個 X 公斤、開始 X 點起床、每個禮拜運動 X 次⋯⋯一定要有個天翻地覆的改變、把自己變得更好。

 

雖然都看起來滿正向的,但這些貼文想一想又有點怪怪的⋯⋯好像在說現在的自己是不好的、不足的,所以要不斷地一直改善、一直改善,達到某個遙遠的目標。

 

當然,不是說我們就一直停在這裡就好,而是在社群、廣告上看到這種心靈勵志的內容的時候,一定要記得:任何真正的改變一定是從自我接納開始,而不是從一種「我永遠差一點、永遠不夠」的匱乏或自卑感開始。

 

所以我們才說最厲害的願望,就是接受現在的自己!

 

這個世界會不會哪天終於不要這麼膚淺呢?對女生的外貌、身形標準哪天可不可以不要再雙標?—我們不知道。

 

但我們知道:要不要減重這件事從來都不是個人單純為了健康的選擇,這個決定往往都是受到社會的審美標準、社會期待、性別影響。

 

在佳格的大家想提醒你,減不減重的重點其實是在於:健康和身形沒有絕對的關係,體重的數字掉了下來不代表就是健康的。

 

減重 ≠ 健康:

 

體重下降不一定是好事!

 

把減重當作健康的指標是超級簡化的做法!「健康」的狀態不只是健檢報告沒有紅字,還包括身心整體的狀態——身材苗條不代表身體很健康,體重數字比較高也不代表身體健康很糟糕。

 

反過來說,體重增加反而可能是健康狀態改善的徵兆——營養更均衡了、心理狀態更好了、或是某個健康相關的問題解決了。

 

所以,一個人整體的健康包括體內荷爾蒙的均衡、心靈韌性等各種面向,而不只是身材的樣貌。

 

每個人的身體乘載著他 / 她一路上的生命故事,所以,當一個社會用身形衡量一個人的個性、甚至是價值,只會造成單一審美觀的僵化、排擠所有不符合社會框架的人群。

 

一個人的健康,其實自己最清楚;是不能單單用外貌、身形衡量的。

 

到底是誰在叫大家減重?—線上線下的身材歧視無所不在

 

不管減不減重,現今的社會上充斥著身材歧視,線上線下都有「身材糾察隊 / 身材警察」等不及要找出任何身材不符合社會期待的人,加以嘲笑、羞辱⋯⋯,令人覺得自己不屈服都不行。

 

這樣的壓力在女性身上又特別沈重,不管走到哪裡,社群上、電視上、櫥窗裡、雜誌上都是苗條的模特兒、網紅,好像體重越輕就更值得喜愛、體重越重反而是道德沈淪的象徵。

 

這樣的社會氛圍讓身形符合社會期待的人群佔盡了歧視紅利,而剩餘的人只會越來越被邊緣化。

 

認真說起來,一個人的身形如何,也受各種因素影響——基因、生長環境、教育⋯⋯,身形湊巧變得符合社會期待,是不是也只是「投胎湊巧投得好」呢?

 

那到底什麼時候讚美別人的外表是 OK 的?

 

簡單一個原則,只讚美對方「完完全全」可以控制的面向!


例如:髮型、髮色、穿搭、彩妝、鞋子⋯⋯。

 

不要問別人是不是「最近吃比較多」或是恭喜別人「變瘦了」,對方身形改變的原因可能有很多,可能是好的原因、也可能是不好的,這種狀況下還是敏感一點比較好喔! 

 

減重產業水很深???

 

瘦身產業市值數十億,常以「快速」、「速效」等廣告詞吸引消費者購買無法持久的減重產品,小至傷荷包,大至傷身,但市面上還是充斥著這些產品,讓想要減重的族群不斷陷入充滿期待、卻又迅速失望的循環。

 

更全面地看待「健康」這件事

 

就算社會環境如此,我們還是可以保持希望,並理解到:身心健康涵蓋了不同的面向、有各種不同的樣貌,進而接納自己的身體。

 

佳格在食品產業耕耘了近 40 年,我們非常清楚飲食的重要性,長期地不斷節食、讓身體得不到應有的養分絕對不是一條健康的路,甚至可能導致營養不良、免疫下降、生理機能失調,造成身心問題。

 

你有沒有想過日常的小毛病可能是營養的問題呢?

 

我們設計了免費的《100秒GO健康》線上問卷線上問卷,幫你確認自己是否有充足、均衡的營養。

 

佳格的營養師精心設計了這份問卷,讓你可以簡單了解可以怎麼樣改善自己的營養狀態,用最適合你的方式吃、喝、過生活!

 

你的健康,自己決定。

 

在佳格的我們知道減重是非常私密的過程,而且不是只是算算熱量、建立運動計劃而已,只有你可以決定:對你而言,健康是什麼樣的狀態?健康生活又是長什麼樣子?

 

我們支持你用自己的方法過健康的生活,而不屈服於社會的眼光。

 

我們也拒絕身材歧視,相信每個人要有健康的身體,也要能夠愛自己、接納自己,真正達到身心的健康。

 

期待你也能如此地支持身邊的人、勇敢挑戰不健康的社會期待,讓社會上每個人都可以用自己的方式,活出健康好生活!

 

下次再看到社群上呼籲大家要改變、減重、更瘦、更好看的貼文,希望你記得:現在的你,已經夠好了。

 

這樣才是最厲害的新開始。

 

 

<免責聲明>:本文章僅供參考,並不是專業的醫療建議,如果你有任何疑慮或特殊的身體狀況,請在食用補充品或補充劑或改變飲食習慣前諮詢專業醫療人員。

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In our very human pursuit of personal growth, it becomes crucial to navigate this sea of well-intentioned advice with a compass of self-acceptance, acknowledging that true transformation stems from a foundation of self-love rather than a rejection of the current self.

The truly radical act is not buying into the idea that you need to improve. 

 

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No matter if you are choosing to lose weight or not, there is constant pressure to change your body. Many people experience body policing, fatphobia, and societal pressure to slim down. Women in particular face unrealistic beauty standards perpetuated by media. Society often deems weight loss virtuous, and weight gain a flaw, reinforcing a toxic narrative equating thinness with worthiness. This dichotomy marginalizes and stigmatizes those born into bodies that diverge from a very narrow societal mold.

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The economic interests behind the weight loss industry add another layer to the complexity. Profit-driven motives can lead to the promotion of quick fixes and unsustainable practices, putting vulnerable individuals at risk. The diet industry, estimated to be worth billions, often thrives on perpetuating unrealistic expectations, trapping individuals in a cycle of hope and disappointment.

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Our commitment lies in supporting you on your terms and encouraging healthy practices without succumbing to harmful societal pressures. We stand against body shaming, promoting a narrative that values self-love, body acceptance, and mental well-being alongside physical health. Let's uplift each other, challenge harmful norms, and collectively redefine health as a celebration of diverse bodies and unique paths toward well-being.

As you scroll through the many videos, articles, essays, and social media posts telling you to optimize, change, and lose weight, we invite you to recognize that you are doing a great job, just as you are. That is a truly radical way to approach your life.

 

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not substitute professional medical advice. If you have specific health concerns or conditions, consult with a healthcare professional before starting any new dietary regimen or supplement.